Cha Cha Cha Cha Changes....

The Baby Gear portion of A Soft Landing is officially closed... but not gone

Our gear will be making it's way over to a brand new store opening December, 2011

Please watch this site for more details as they come available.

Landing Gear products will be available on this site and in a few local shops by January, 2012

3 Super Heroes

Tonight I find myself on an extended play date with a little girl who I had the honour of attending 2 1/2 years ago.  They are all so precious to me and I enjoy watching them grow up. Every time I get to hear first words, watch first steps or hear about their first day of preschool, I feel blessed to have been part of their beginning.

So, it's past 10 and I am sleepy. We have discussed my bracelet and how it gives me special sleeping powers... this is a new bracelet that reminds me of the fact that as a young girl, I was sure I was Wonder Woman.  Next, I tried the pretend to sleep game, to which Sydney replied "I gonna pretend to wake up!" (emphasis on the word UP!) I told her that super kids know how to fall asleep before their caregivers.  No dice.

Finally, I told her I had super reading powers that make little kids fall asleep before the book is over. I was so sure this one was gonna be the magic and that sleepy fairy dust would soon fall over this house.  I would like to quote to you the reading of Goodnight Moon ~ no doubt this would work right? Anyone who has ever parented another human being knows the power of Margaret Wise Brown I think. I like to leave off the last word of the parts of books that rhyme and see if the child I'm reading to will pick up what I'm laying down.

Diane: "Goodnight room, goodnight moon, good night cow jumping over the"
Sydney: "moon"

Diane: "Goodnight light and the red"
Sydney "balloon"

Diane: "Goodnight bears, goodnight chairs, goodnight kittens, and goodnight mittens.  Goodnight clocks, and goodnight"
Sydney: "socks"

Diane: "Goodnight little house, and goodnight mouse. goodnight comb, and goodnight brush
Goodnight nobody. goodnight"
Sydney: "YOGURT!" (little girl... big, bright voice)

My super powers have failed me... we are sitting side by side now at the island in the kitchen. She is watching youtube videos of Susan Sarandon reading GNM and some little owl trying to lull a star to sleep with the sweet hushing's of "Twinkle Twinkle"  ~ I am writing on my laptop beside her... trying to keep my eyes in focus.  

Sydney: "Di Annnnne?" Diane: "Yes Sydney?"  Sydney: "I hungry :)"  Diane: "Okay Sydney.. okay"

Birthdays

Little fellow born on a Monday! You and your parents brought me fully back into North America and for this I am grateful. You were such a little gentleman for your Mama and gave her all the signals necessary to get you into the world with us.  When the time came for you to make your appearance, you certainly had everyone moving around fast. I had a feeling about you my little baby friend. I'm glad you decided to join us.

Congratulations Chester on your precious baby brother!

Love,
Your Doula

Tread Softly...

We are Birthy's, Women, Mothers, Sisters, Students, Midwives, Daughters...

As I move about my morning I worry.  Worry about my women and my children and their children and their children's children.  If you know me at all, you may describe me as one who speaks her mind... or you may just describe me as rammy... or clowny... or mothery... But at this amazing time in my life this is how I feel...  Birthy - May I be grateful to have that feeling and may my I be given the skills I need in order to allow many to land in my hands... softly.  As Birthy's, we are given to attend and honour women and their lovers as they attend to the birth of their own creations, The Baby

"You still pregnant?  Still waiting? Haven't you had that baby yet? You must be so uncomfortable... Why is it taking so long? Can't they induce you? Why are you still here? Please bring that baby out so we can see what she/he looks like"   Are not helpful ~ "You are amazing! You are beautiful! You are a gift! Can I get you anything? Do you feel like dancing? Let me run you a bath... You are a Goddess! Rest my darling! Let me clean the house :) I have made your favorite meal, would you like me to rub your feet while you eat?"  More like it  - When a woman is "due" we all want to help - to try to charm the little one out so we can all feel better.  I have seen enough to know that sometimes we just need to wait and rest and care for each other.  While we wait, we may take care of each other and our own and when we are truly needed, the call will come ~